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jika mereka sibuk mencari pasangan...biarlah kita sibuk mencari keredhaan..
jika mereka menangis kerana kecewa bercinta...biarlah kita menangis kerana mengenang dosa2 semalam...
jika mereka cintakan kemanusiaan...biarlah kita cintakan TUHAN....
sama2 kita renungkan...yop..

NETOMANIA

INTERNET ADDICTION DISORDER..

Nowadays. there are many of our business will link with internet. So it’s did not weird if have some people can stay up in front of computer around 10 hours a days!!

Netomania is not a recognized disorder, but this popular name for Internet Addiction Disorder (IAD) may be affecting some Internet users who spend many hours for gaming, blogging and so on. People who develop problems with their Internet use may start off using the Internet on a casual basis and then progress to using the technology in dysfunctional ways. Many people believe that spending large amounts of time on the Internet is a core feature of the disorder.
No one knows what is the cause of this addiction, but concern by theory, that is cause by the mood-altering potential of behaviors related to process addictions. Therefore, to having features of a process addiction, Internet use might be reinforced by pleasurable thoughts and feelings that occur while the person is using the Internet. People with such other mental disorders or symptoms as depression, feelings of isolation, stress , or anxiety, may "self-medicate" by using the Internet in the same way that some people use alcohol or drugs of abuse to self-medicate the symptoms of their mental disorder.
Other symptoms of addiction may include lack of sleep, fatigue , declining grades or poor job performance, apathy , and racing thoughts. There is little research on the effectiveness of treatment procedures. Many of the procedures that have been used to treat Internet addiction have been modeled after other addiction treatment programs and support groups . Psychological interventions may also help the person identify thoughts and feelings that trigger their use of the Internet. Interpersonal interventions may include such approaches as social skills training or coaching in communication skills. Family and couple therapy may be indicated if the user is turning to the Internet to escape from problems in these areas of life.





Read more:
http://www.minddisorders.com/Flu-Inv/Internet-addiction-disorder.html#ixzz0Niq0NJQC
http://www.files.chem.vt.edu/chem.dept/dessy/honors/papers/ferris.html

Lenalah kamu...

Lenalah dalam iman..bangun nanti dalam aman...jangan lupa SYAHADAH, bangkit nanti ALHAMDULILLAH..hidup meniti arus ujian..kita MUNGKIN kalah, MUNGKIN menang...namun kita takkan lari dari kesilapan...hati2 kemudi laluan, jangan tersasar arah...KEPADA ALLAH JUA KITA BERSERAH...semoga sentiasa salam lindungan ALLAH....amiinn...

SEBUAH CERITA...

Ni la cinta...ada seorang gadis buta, semua orang bencikan dia..kecuali kekasihnya.Gadis tu selalu berkata.."saya akan mengahwini awak kalau saya boleh melihat",....satu hari ada orang dermakan mata kepada gadis tu...bila gadis tu boleh melihat, dia merasa sangat terkejut apabila kekasihnya juga buta seperti dia dulu...Kekasihnya bertanya..."sudikah awak mengahwini saya sekarang?"...gadis itu menolak...Kekasihnya senyum dan pergi sambil berkata...TOLONG JAGA MATA SAYA BAIK2.....sob2..sob2...
moral of the story.....cinta sesama makhluk akan menyusahkan kalo tiada batasan...
tapi cinta pada ALLAH tanpa sempadan insyaALLAH lebih menggembirakan....

Doaku..

Ya ALLAH!, jika aku jatuh cinta, cintakanlah aku pada seorang yang melabuhkan cintanya pada-MU...untuk aku mencintai-MU,
Ya ALLAH!, jika aku jatuh cinta, jagalah cintaku padanya agar tidak melebihi cintaku pada-MU,
Ya ALLAH!, jika aku jatuh cinta, izinkanlah aku menyentuh hati seseorang yang hatinya tertaut pada-MU..agar tidak terjatuh aku dalam jurang semu,
Ya ALLAH!, jika aku jatuh cinta, jagalah hatiku padanya agar tidak berpaling dari cinta-MU,
Ya ALLAH!, sesungguhnya aku bermohom pada-MU...untuk selalu menyintai-MU...

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